You should be picky.
So think of this as a first conversation with a matchmaker.
A few questions about you, then about who you’re looking for. About five minutes. At the end, we’ll tell you what we heard, and you can change anything.
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Why these questions
We ask about the things that predict whether two people work, long after the first date. Every question comes from decades of relationship research.
Where your life is headed. Kids, timing and where you want to live are some of the clearest signs of whether two people fit.
What you value. Couples who share values tend to stay happier over time.
How you are in a relationship. How you communicate and work through disagreements is a big part of whether a relationship lasts.
Most of your answers stay private. Each question shows whether it appears on your profile.
Your answers decide who we introduce you to.
That’s you
Thanks. We have a good sense of you now.
Next, a few questions about who you’d like to meet. This is where you tell us what matters to you in someone else, and what’s non-negotiable.
Putting it together
Here’s what we heard.
Read it like a matchmaker’s notes. If anything’s off, change it.
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Photos of you, not of things. The first one is your main photo. Add up to ten.
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These become your first posts, so people can get to know you before you’ve posted anything. Answer five.
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Everything you’ve told us carries into the app, so you won’t answer any of it twice.
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